Put on Your Own Mask First

Mike Breen taught us during our 3DM immersion that “the learning is in the room.” It’s not always the person up front and leading something who has all the answers and the things we need to hear, no matter how much education and experience they might have. I’ve been doing Quito Quest across nine years, and I certainly don’t have all the answers. So it’s been super fun to keep learning from the wisdom this (young) team has brought with them.

Quito Quest pushes you. It’s physically demanding. It’s spiritually demanding. It’s mentally demanding. And it can be downright emotionally punishing. And being with a team of awesome, excited people serving alongside loving, welcoming, hard-working locals can cause this sense of wanting to “keep up.” So we run into exhaustion very easily. We run into guilt when we just can’t stretch anymore in this particular way, but we compare ourselves to someone who seems like they can.

My first block hosting a team in 2008, I never asked for a break. I felt like it was complaining to even say out loud honestly when I was tired or hungry or pissed at a team leader. By the fourth block, I found time to sit and read our daily scriptures, to rest, to blog, to stay out of the sun and away from people for a few minutes during the day. This wasn’t because I’d actually wised up at this point. It was because after 70 days my body finally fought back and let me know that my rhythms were unsustainable.

It’s not my instinct to take a break. Or to let someone else work harder than me (in my perception). But another thing Mike Breen taught us was to work out of our rest, rather than resting from our work. It’s an important distinction. If you just go go go until you have to rest, that’s not really rest. It’s catching up. But if rest in Christ is intentionally part of your rhythm, there’s a well from which to draw, and a power which is not our own, out of which to minister.

A team member brought her own learning to the room tonight. For those members of the team who were tired and expressed a frustration born from trying to keep up and to have something to offer to those at the ministry sites, she offered that wisdom to us. She said that it is much like the safety instructions on the airplane. When pressure drops and the masks come out of the ceiling, you have to put your own mask on before you help anyone else with theirs.

What’s funny is how many people in the room immediately said “I hate that!” I guess I’m not alone in wanting to take care of others. In wanting to tough it out and keep up regardless of my own weakness. In picturing some little kid sitting next to me in that emergency and wanting to get a mask on them immediately. But the whole point of that safety brief on the plane is that if you don’t bother to take care of yourself, you may become unable to to take of anyone else either.

Rest isn’t selfish. It was modeled by Jesus in how much time he spent in the wilderness or the mountains or in the garden alone with the Father. It’s how we have enough energy to do what we are called to do. It’s how we go from serving out of our own guilt to ministering out of God’s grace.

Be Yourself When You’re Uncomfortable

Since the day before the team arrived, I’ve been a little under the weather. I wrote about altitude affecting me by making me tired. But it can also occasionally cause some digestive issues. In 9 years, I’ve never had that problem, but apparently I do this week (EDIT: turns out I actually got an intestinal infection. Awesome!) At any rate, it sucks. And it’s sucking energy out of me, not being able to keep food in my system.

The other fun thing about this situation is that I’ve been up every few hours during the night, so I’m way low on sleep since I’ve been here. I can function when I’m sick. I can function without food. But since my first summer here I’ve known that I just don’t function well when I don’t sleep.

In the States I can pretty easily just decide “I can work from home today.” But when your job is translating and going on home visits and transporting people and paying for food, you can’t really Skype in for that. So my first couple of days with this team have been somewhat uncomfortable. I gave somewhat lethargic orientations at the Basilica and at Plaza San Francisco, and I’ve been doing all I can to take it easy in Argelia Alta (including taking a couple hours off this morning to go to the doctor for the first time ever in Ecuador). I don’t like not feeling like me when I’m with the team. And I thoroughly dislike feeling like I’m less than capable of doing the job that I’m here to do.

But one of our team members said something tonight at debrief that struck me. She was speaking in terms of cultural adjustments, but her advice to herself and to the rest of us was “Be yourself even when you’re uncomfortable.”
Yes, being sick really bites. And as I’ve been getting better I’ve described it as feeling “more like me.” But I get to choose to be me however I feel. And I’m glad that I took that opportunity at a few points. Full of or lacking in energy, I did stick with the team as much as possible, and I do feel like Quito Quest is one of those things that makes me me. And still not at 100%, I can choose to be me. I can choose to find my identity and my outlook in Christ instead of in this sickness and how it has physically made me feel. I’m not saying I’m great at making that choice. But in a new way, I’m aware of my ability to keep making that choice now.

Acclimatizing

When a short-term team comes through the Quito Quest program, the first full day that they are on the ground is a day to acclimatize. Somewhat literally, as altitude is generally a large concern, and somewhat figuratively, as they experience the language and the culture and the food and the pace of life in Ecuador and in Quito specifically. It’s an “easy” day in the sense that they are not working at ministry sites yet, but it is full. Or as my bilingual brain would put it, “full full.”

Today was a day like that for me. At the end of plane ride #10 to Ecuador, it seems perfectly normal for me to walk out of customs, meet Roberto, and walk out into the night air and city sounds of Quito. But “regular day” though it felt, the travel does take its toll on me, and after an hour car ride back home to the Vicancos’ last night, I was beat. So I was very thankful to have the opportunity to sleep in this morning.

I woke up slowly to the sound of the boys moving around and beginning to get ready and eat. And I was greeted by Graham’s surprised, joyous cry of “Daaaannnyyyy!” From the breakfast table when I finally (at 8:00) walked out of my room this morning. I just got to just participate in life at casa Vicanco. Breakfast and playtime and walking Graham to preschool and jamming on a ukulele with Liam. We went to the bread store and I copied some keys and I got to participate in my first Tuesday morning Quito Quest meeting in almost six(!) years. When I woke up there was one and only one thing on my schedule for the day. And it didn’t happen. Because the day began to fill up with normal life despite my lack of plans. And again, I was exhausted by 3:00 in the afternoon. Travel takes its toll, but so does altitude. It makes normal life take twice as much energy.

After a quick nap I met Roberto on Av. Brasil and jumped into the Suburban with him, Joaquin, the three other members of his band (Gedeon) and a trunk full of instruments and sound equipment. Way too many people and cases in one vehicle, but once again, totally normal around here. We drove out to El Refugio and began setting up for their gig, which was to play for a group of leaders who have been training out there and were celebrating their time together before they head home. There was a dinner and the plan was for Gedeon to play both some romantic music and some praise songs. But about 20 minutes before the dinner was to begin, all the power in the Grace Center went out. I thought the band had blown a fuse with all their equipment, but it turned out that the power was out all over the property. My friend Christy summed it up immediately and succinctly: “That’s unfortunate.”

Having spent more than half my life in North Carolina with its nor’easters and hurricanes and people who crash into power substations during fog, I’m no stranger to electrical outages. But Ecuador can take them to a whole different level. We had no idea when or if the power would return tonight or tomorrow or next week. Especially outside the city of Quito. So the band dug up an acoustic guitar and a djembe that someone had on the property so they could begin rehearsing an emergency acoustic set.

Byron rescued the situation, setting up the El Refugio generator so the band could have power and we could have one work light under which to eat. And throughout dinner and music and presentations, the lights returned and went out 3 more times. Totally unpredictable, and totally normal.

I won’t even go into detail about the preaching, or the worship, or the dancing that happened throughout that dinner gig. It was all entirely behind schedule (that I worried we’d be on time to the airport) and fantastic and hilarious and God-filled. I’m not sure if it’s okay to describe something God-filled as “normal.” Suffice it to say it was all within the theme of the day.

Our final adventure of the night was to pick up Caroline from the airport. We were worried we’d be late as we hauled tail all the way from El Refugio but with three planes arriving at once, we waited for about fifteen minutes before Caroline’s wide-eyed smiling face poked out from between the doors from Immigration. Totally normal to see her in Ecuador and weird that the last time we hung out was in North Carolina. And all three of us were thrilled both to hang out in the car for an hour and then to fall into each of our beds.

Travel takes its toll. Altitude takes its toll. And long days take their toll. So I’m grateful for my day “set aside” for adjusting to my Ecuadorian life. And thrilled at how normal my abnormal Ecuadorian life has become.

Spring Adventures

All through February, it seems that all I’ve worked on has been Beach Retreat. It’s our district’s annual youth retreat, and I’ve been going since 2001, first as a student, then as a volunteer, then as a youth director, and now as the District Youth Coordinator. Which is super weird. And a TON of work. It was a fantastic weekend, but when I got back to town on Sunday afternoon I slept. From 4:30pm until 8:30am Monday. And that does not remotely discourage me from doing this again next year.

My adventures tend to be that way. People say “how was your trip/visit/vacation/retreat?” and I have to quickly think of another adjective besides “exhausting.” And sometimes I have to stop and think which “trip” they’re even talking about. Partially because I’m always going somewhere. And partially because once it’s over, I’ve already moved on to the next thing. This afternoon I was working at First UMC and our music director walked in the building, and immediately asked my about my trip. That was all the context she gave me, and it seems reasonable to assume that since I haven’t seen her since before I went to the beach, I’d know that’s what she meant. But honestly, now that I’m unpacked, I’ve mentally moved right along to my next adventure, which is heading to Ecuador in March.

And that adventure is going to basically be a month long. I’ll have a week to get everyone prepared to do music, presenter software, Sunday School, UMYF, High School Bible Study, La Casa, and my job at the music store in my absence. And then I leave the country for what most people around me assume will be some kind of vacation. On paper, I guess that’s what I’m doing. I’m taking my vacation days. But I’m going to go work my butt off with a team. Don’t get me wrong, it’s gonna be great. I’m excited to see all of the people on the team who I know, the ones I’m going to meet, and the staff for the team which will be made up of lots and lots of people that I love. But then I get to tote blocks up five flights of stairs, and mix concrete, and translate directions and orientations and services and conversations, and keep track of money and food and schedules and safety and questions for/from 20 people. The restful vacation people assume I’m getting will happen when I get back to the rhythm of weekly youth activities in April.

At least my blog is working again so I can keep track of it all.

Appreciating

Hosting a Quito Quest team, you always have at least one partner. This time around, I’m working with Jose Luis. This has been really awesome, because we know each other really well, he was willing to do finances, and any number of other reasons related to the fact that he’s a really great guy. But he wasn’t here for a big chunk of today.

I totally understood he had some major things to do today, and I’ve hosted enough teams that I can function on my own. Neither of those things meant it was easy. And I could have spent the afternoon being mad, but after all these years of Quito Quest, my natural instinct was just to miss having a buddy and appreciate everything he does. Because no matter how much experience you have, there are just way too many things for one person to remember, much less accomplish at 100%

Doing all of the host duties today also made me retroactively appreciate things other partners have taught me. How Sarah was always thinking about what was next. How Darío just faced conflict head-on. How other people have taught me to be a more effective decision-maker, leader, translator, and friend.

I also appreciated a lot of the “first day” activities. Maybe because it’s very close to the beginning of my own time here. But I saw the juxtaposition between the art and the statues and the insane amount of gold inside Iglesia San Francisco and the poverty directly outside. And it reminds me exactly why we are so intentional about the way we do ministry here. And on my umpteenth hearing of the Partnership Orientation, I still appreciated being reminded of the process I’m going through even now on my way to making this a fruitful experience.

Block 1 in Review

I realized a few days ago how little I’ve been blogging since ijve been here. Obviously I’m doing better than I was for the last ten months that I was back in the States. But I forgot just how little time you have when you’re hosting a team. I hung out with teams last summer, particularly in June and August. But I didn’t really think about the fact that I hadn’t hosted a team since last March. So now that I’m not quite so sleep-deprived, I’ll recap what I’ve been doing since our team hit the ground.

Amalia and I were working with Christ Church Episcopal School from Greenville, SC. I had met a couple of team members last year, particularly Elizabeth, the team leader, when I was working with them in Riobamba, Ecuador. Amalia had actually hosted them, so there were a few returning team members she already knew pretty well, so that was a nice little head start. It was also cool working with Amalia. We’ve known each other for a while and knew already how each other work. I can handle her silliness and she can handle my sarcasm, and overall I think we did a pretty good job of splitting up the work.

So the team got here on Monday night, June 6. Tuesday was a pretty normal day of orientations (see this post for more), and then we headed out to Carmen Bajo on Wednesday. I love being back there, especially since this was my first chance to see a lot of friends who I hadn’t seen since last August. But as a team host, something really cool was seeing the group really plug in there. They all tried out what Spanish they knew, to the point that by Thursday I just found a single job and stuck with it, rather than running around to translate. I figured if they needed to figure something out, they knew where I was. This also allowed me to get to know some of the guys that I was working with (seems like that always takes me longer when we don’t start out the week with a six-hour bus ride out of the city).

Another thing was seeing how much the team members got out of their comfort zones in ways other than language. Thursday morning it was our turn to lead morning devotion, and different people variously played guitar, taught Scripture, and shared parts of their life story. Especially with the sharing stories part, that’s not necessarily stuff they were used to (something to which I can relate), so I was really appreciative of their participation.

While we were out at Carmen Bajo, our main project was to move a pile of sand that would eventually be used to mix concrete. Now that might not sound like a big deal from a North American perspective, but it was. Sometime before Tuesday morning, a truck had dumped the sand in front of the project building. This meant moving it up by wheelbarrows to the patio on the first floor, where it was shoveled up into the back corner out of the way. Once about half of the truckload had been moved there, we started moving it again, from the patio directly up to the fifth floor via pulley. One bucket at a time. You also have to imagine this pulley. When Jose rigged it up, he looked to me and said in Spanish, “I have a job for someone. Someone who doesn’t have vertigo.” Whoever was at the top of the pulley system had to reach over and grab the bucket full of sand. Jose’s suggestion was to sit on the ledge with one leg hanging over the 50-foot drop. Not a job for me. Fortunately, our North American boys were all significantly taller than Jose, so they figured out eventually how to do this while standing (semi-)safely in the inside side of the wall. But safe or not, it still took a took a looooooong time. There were only a couple of buckets dropped accidentally (and one very wet sponge dropped several times very purposefully on unsuspecting heads).

Over the course of our three days working at Carmen Bajo, we got all the sand at least up to the patio, and most of it up to the fifth floor. I know it was hard for some of the team to not see the project 100% complete, but in some ways that’s a good thing. I hope we were able to help them see that they were a part of something, and that missions is not about building something and putting up a plaque with your name and the date on it. Because while they were moving all that sand, they were giving wheelbarrow rides to kids. They were laughing with the adult workers. They were speaking as much Spanish as they could and learning about lives and families and culture and faith. And they were sharing their own.

And even more importantly, we had two more days to go to Carmen Bajo even after our work time was up. Time to spend with people, and time to spend in worship.

We went on Saturday to the market, and then to Casa G (an interesting juxtaposition that I hope was noticed). Again, I have to say that I was impressed with the way the team plugged in with the boys. Phil had a couple of guys share their testimonies, but in between each of them he asked some team members to share. We hadn’t warned them that this was a possibility, so there were some awkward silences, but someone volunteered each time, and I think that the back-and-forth was one of the things that helped build such a strong relationship between the boys and the gringos. Especially thinking about teams I’ve taken to Casa G in the past, I really loved seeing the interaction between two groups people that I also love. I even left for a while as they were playing soccer to pop into the Alliance Academy senior day to show support for Hannah and to see her sister and my first-ever Quito Quest pareja, Sarah Miller.

Hanging out and catching up with her in person was pretty great, but so was taking the team back to Carmen Bajo with the Casa G boys for a concert at the church. Roberto’s band, Gedeón, was playing, and some of the boys performed dances and raps, and a couple of guys from CB also sang and rapped. We got to catch up with another Quito Quest team (some of whom I’d met last summer) and their hosts (who were shocked at my newly-shaven state and helped me with possibly the most ridiculous Spanish food order/phone argument I’ve ever had).

When we got back to the Casa G house and ate with the guys, I literally had to drag some of my team out of the house to get debrief done at a reasonable hour. I pretty much consider any day a success when you are dancing out of your ministry site with the people you’ve been serving with.

Sunday was worship at Carmen Bajo. Fabian preached and Thomas got up and taught a little bit, and then suddenly it was time to say goodbye. Again, there was quite a bit of dragging to do, and translating and talking throughout. Another friend of mine (somewhat jokingly, somewhat seriously) doesn’t consider teams a success if they don’t cry. By that standard, Sunday morning was a pretty resounding success.

We took off Sunday for Hacienda El Refugio, Youth World’s training and retreat center just outside the city. While we had some work projects to do there, Sunday afternoon was all about connecting to God in that place. We had several hours of quiet time after our orientation, and at least for me, it was very much needed. My two favorite places on the property are at the top of the mountain where you can see all the other peaks around, and in this tree near Casa Grande that I just can’t help but climb. If you ever need a reminder how small you are and how big God is (and you’re not near the ocean), look at a mountain. Or climb a tree. You can’t help but feel like a little kid when you’re in a tree. I just sat there I. The branches after my hike and was still.

A cuy roast and 8 hours of “ocean” sleep-machine effects later, we were jumping into our work projects. Some of the guys poured concrete steps and then took them up to place on the path to the high ropes course. When they were done, they joined my group in the prayer garden digging ditches. We needed a series of shovel-width ditches 24 inches deep (which kept making me think of that old Jibbs song) so that the electrical could all be put down where it would not later be disturbed. This project lasted us the rest of our time on the property, and we were worn out at the end of each day. Especially the night that Amalia, Bryce and I shared our testimonies with the team.

Elizabeth asked us (Amalia and myself) to do this one night, and we dragged Bryce into it as well. Now I say “we dragged” because that’s how it seemed to come about. But hearing his testimony, I know it was a God thing. And as much as I still really don’t like telling my story, I know that that was a God thing too. I was really stressed out about it, but the only time I started to get choked up was while I was reading scripture, and I know that how much I chose to say (quite a bit more than normal) was guided by Him. There have been certain people in my life who have really been able to impact my faith through their stories. And while I’m certainly not a motivational speaker or anything, I know that God uses our stories in ways that we don’t necessarily expect or even see.

Fast forward to Wednesday, and we had one last action-packed day in the ground. We left HER right after breakfast (sort of) and went basically straight to Fundación Las Ganas, an orphanage in central Quito. We went once during training, and I knew that we were one of only two QQ teams going all summer. This is because Ganas is a new ministry site for us, and in short, we’re trying not to overwhelm them with gringos.

Ganas is a tough place. The kids that are there have had some really bad situations in their lives before being placed there. It’s also a place full of love and a place where more than just basic needs are met. But sometimes it is hard for the workers at the foundation to meet even those basic needs. This “recap” is already pretty ridiculously long, so if you want some more thoughts on Ganas, check out my friend Dana’s blog about our training time there by clicking this link. Suffice it to say that the team worked their butts off one last time. They were dropping like flies from exhaustion and various stomach problems, but they got an amazing amount of the work done, hand washing barrel after barrel of blankets with very limited resources.

Finally it was time for final debrief. We talked. We prayed. We cried (success!). We said goodbye. Because really, nobody is fully awake at the airport at 4:00am. I went with them to and through the airport, long enough to be sure they were checked in and their airport tax was taken care of. And then they were gone.

There were plenty of tasks to finish out the block. Debrief with the Maestros (aka Ghostbusters). Cleaning the hostal. Laundry. Laundry. Laundry. But the on-field time was over.

I hope the team saw God move in and through them, because I did. And I hope that this continues to impact them in Greenville and that they bear fruit in the post-field. Maybe some will be back next summer. Maybe some will come and do my job. Maybe some will just go home and love God and others in a new way. As Cameron said in Partnership orientation a week and N eternity ago, it would be silly for any of us to tell someone else what their fruit should be. But after 10 days on the ground with them, I am confident that there will be plenty of fruit to go around, whatever it looks like. And I hope I figure out what mine looks like as well.

Preparations

Last night our first team arrived in the country. But before they get down to business, so many things have to happen. They would never have gotten here without packing bags and buying plane tickets, and ultimately having a personal connection that led them to Youth World. And we had a ton of things to get done on our side as well.

As a team, our staff spent over a week together building relationships and learning (or relearning) how to host teams. We visited ministry sites. We took the Trole. We facilitated debriefs and translated and got and gave orientations and paid for food all over Quito and the oriente.

The thing that really separates Youth World and its Quito Quest program from other short-term missions organizations with which I’ve come into contact is the focus on doing short-term missions well, and with integrity. And even though there were some sections of training that I wanted to snooze through (“We’re going to read through the manual together? Really?”) I know that we can’t simply jump into having a team on the ground without being ready for them in every possible way.

So back to today, with our team (Christ Church Episcopal School from Greenville, SC) on the ground. It was their first full day, and we did a lot of “touristy” things. Sometimes this is hard for groups, who want to get off the plane and immediately go to a ministry site and start mixing concrete or painting or doing VBS. But the reason we sit around the hostal or the office and hear orientation after orientation and then spend several hours walking around historic Quito is not just to kill time. We want the groups to be familiar with the Ecuadorian people to and with who they are serving, and the culture in which they are doing so.

It hit me pretty hard today that I can’t just assume that because I’ve done is job (so many times) before that I’m going to nail it every time. I forget things. I screw up words and phrases in Spanish. I can come up with much better solutions to the myriad minor crises as I endlessly replay them in my head from the safety of my couch at 10 PM. But because I’ve done this job before, and because I’ve learned from others who have hosted tons of teams before me, and because I’ve spent over five weeks of my life doing some form or another of official Quito Quest training, I can handle this job much better than I could if I just got off the plane without having any clue what to expect.

And in that same way, I hope our day of “sightseeing” has helped give our 22 South Carolinians what they need before we go to our first day of ministry at Carmen Bajo in the morning. The time they need to adjust; the perspective that will help them understand; the attitude that will help them learn, grow, serve, and worship.

More Photos from Carmen Bajo

Normally I arrive at Carmen Bajo and unlock the door to my classroom to find it pristine, unchanged from the last time I taught. Laura and I are the only ones with keys, and for the most part we leave each others’ stuff alone, and nobody else goes in there when one of us isn’t around. I didn’t really remember how we’d left it last week though. While the team was on the ground, and since I had a key on me all the time (as opposed to the room downstairs, for which we have to hunt down the key every ten minutes), we used the art room as a storage room for all the craft supplies, guitars, cameras, and various other gringo junk. Assuming that I’d need to sort out some leftover ministry supplies, I came early today. Despite expecting to do a little work, my reaction when I opened the door was “Where the heck am I gonna have class?!” The photo below is en media res because I forgot to take a totally “before” picture.

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Again, I’d already been cleaning and sorting and rearranging for 45 minutes before I bothered to take a picture. There were several more very large suitcases full of stuff when I started.

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Jackpot! These mostly went upstairs to the women in the kitchen. Mostly.

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Jostin and Josué jam on some ukuleles (under very careful supervision). My two favorite parts were that they were both holding them backwards, and they were totally singing along to the awful noise that was emanating from the tiny instruments.

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What an influence the Canadians were. Unprovoked, the colegio boys chose to play real field (patio) Hockey instead of Wii Boxing. WHAT?!

Communication

This weekend the Quito Quest staff went to Riobamba, Ecuador, partly to participate at ministry sites in the area and partially as a scouting mission for some short-term teams we will be taking there during the spring and summer. It was an absolute blast that the whole of QQ got to go. We absolutely have the best department in Youth World. Not always the most serious, amicable, or reverent, especially when ill-rested, but still the best.

We actually mainly just slept and occasionally ate in Riobamba proper, because the ministry sites which we visited were all pretty far removed from the city. This meant driving usually over an hour up and down crazy mountainsides with sheer cliffs to the side and rocks, ditches, dogs, and sleeping women in the path of our bus. On the way to a second ministry site on Friday, a makeshift bridge actually broke under the driver’s side front wheel and we spent the next significant portion of the afternoon attempting (and finally succeeding) in removing our only realistically conceivable mode of transportation from the ditch in which its entire front had become lodged. I might add that we did this with only rocks, a long but rather flimsy-looking log, and elbow grease. We were also all incredibly thankful that the wheel, tire, axel, and surrounding body were undamaged, especially considering we had exactly zero spare tires.

At the ministry sites themselves, it was one surprise after another. We had been told to expect a colder-climate style culture than what we are used to in Quito or on the coast or in the jungle. What stood out to me after two days was the difference between each ministry site and each of the others in terms of how people reacted to our presence and our activities there. At our first stop, with only twenty people or so, those who came sang with us, responded to questions, and jumped into our ridiculous games. Even the older adults were enthusiastic about running around during a fantastic gato y raton game that I’m going to have to take back with me for North American youth activities. Our second ministry site was much the same in enthusiasm, probably more so here, however, because of the huge number of children present. But Saturday morning, we went to another mountain community and felt like we were pulling teeth to even get “yes” or “no” answers or hands raised to simple questions.

Part of this, I’m sure, had to do with language. Certainly not all, which I’ll get to in a moment, but part of it, at least, had to do with language. While pretty much everyone did speak Spanish, it is a second language for a significant portion of all of the communities which we visited. These were very much indigenous communities, and most of the people there, particularly the older ones, grew up speaking Quichua. We actually got some Quichua lessons over breakfast, and I now know the phrases for “What is your name?”, “How are you?”, “Yes,” “No,” and “Flower,” in Quichua. We practiced the first four over and over again during breakfast, and “Flower” happens to be the only word of somewhere around 4o million that one of the pastors’ sons taught me on a bus ride Saturday morning. I won’t attempt to spell any of them here in Quichua, but I can say them.

That said, there were a few stumbles, especially among gringos and Quiteños attempting Quichua, and depending on whether Spanish or Quichua was the first language of each individual indigenous person, but overall that aspect went well. The epic fail was our humor. By Saturday afternoon we had learned how not to make to much of fools of ourselves, but up until that point, there were a lot of times when someone would make a joke (in Spanish), and everyone from Youth World (Ecuadorianas included) would laugh and everyone from the community would just stare at us. The one time they were sure to laugh, however, was when one of us would ask how to say something in Quichua, someone else would tell them, and then we would proceed to butcher it. We’ll take what we can get, though.

Aside from some awkward moments where the kids and even the adults would hardly talk to us, we actually got to plug into what was going on at these sites, and I am looking forward to the possibility of going back with some of this Quito Quest crew to these sites this summer.